Wednesday, July 04, 2007

friendships

I think for now, I have to reassess my friendships. Who I should take seriously and who I shouldnt. Apparently the people who I thought were my friends really were not. They just sometimes seem like they are.

What makes a friend?
-Someone who has your back when things go south
-Someone who apologizes when they did something wrong
-Someone who includes others in their undertakings
-Someone who joins in other peoples' happiness and doesnt put them down when they make mistakes
-Someone who doesnt go out of their way to hurt others (like say physically hitting and stuff like that)


All this is just barely scratching the surface. Within the last few days, my thoughts of who really were my friends have been confirmed. I now see people for who they really are and I think I'm having problems trusting the people I used to trust whole heartedly. I dont know, how do you get over these things, especially when friendship has been betrayed one time too many ?

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